There is obviously a reason the Relationships forum is the most read and visited here, because this topic is the one that causes the most heartache, frustration, emotional discontent, sadness, anger, and cluelessness.

Easy solution...

If you are a girl, and you like him, and he is safe & clean and not abusive... have sex if he wants to have sex.. use protection and/or pills. This saves alot of arguments and tension.

If you don't like him, then don't go out with him. Duhhh. And please don't try to put him in friendzone... I personally hate that, not sure about other guys. Yes I do want to sleep with you and not be your Brother figure. Find a brother for that.

Guys.. you need to hold off on all that alcohol.. it makes you abusive and guys like you are the reason all these girls are avoiding sex with normal decent guys who are not abusive but just want to sleep with someone out of love and affection.

So fair is fair.. I have just resolved most problems here. Too bad you will go off and listen to your friends, the media, and the facebook trolls for advice. Good luck with that. How is that working so far?