Hello Suzy I am sorry you are going through this in your life right now. I understand the fear you must have about revealing yourself to your therpist and the rejection from your husband, but you are still a person and deserve to get the help you need. Other people see you as a king caring person not your weight, Suzy and I hope one day with the right help for your self esteem that you figure out that the world is made up of PEOPLE, all kinds of people and the most important thing in life is making a difference in life not weight. I hope if you are overweight you would be concerned to get healthier, but I hope that you dont let this turn into something serious for your health due to your husbands issues with your weight. You are a very bright and caring person and I would really hate to see someone cause you to lose those qualities that people like about you Suzy, Marriage counseling may help you and your husband as well. I really hate to see you hurting from what your husband said when you did not deserve it really. Ijust hope that you let your therapist help you and your husband so that you can have a better attitude towards life and yourself. I hope the best for you and your husband and the relationship. Take care Soidhonia