Both my Husband and Son have Aspergers, there is no cure or medication for this Syndrome. Have you read up about it ? I know when our Son was diagnosed, reading up about it was a huge relief for my husband to find out that his behaviour was A Typical and he got a lot of closure for past events.

Aspergers Syndrome is on the High end of the Autism spectrum, and if you are being diagnosed with it I highly recommend reading up on it as it will help you a lot to understand the traits and to find coping skills etc.

As for the meds, I assume they are for you Anxiety ? I suffered from GAD and it is the most debilitating thing ever, so I feel for you coping with that on top of the ASD

I hope you find the answers you need., and peace of mind