I understand....and your husbands answer would make me feel even worse ,,, I dont think they understand how phrases can be so devastating to us....we already feel so bad about not being well but throw the comments in there and its awful.. its hard enough to have kids work and everything else we do as mom and wife, BUT you really need to take time for yourself just get in the car and get a pedicure take a yoga class anything to get away a relax, My T has evening apts maybe one in your area can accomodate your schedule, coming off meds can really throw you for a loop but i really think you need to look for another T and try to get back on track so you feel in control so sorry your heart is broken .. be well we are here for you