well, some of the stuff like the alcoholism, AA, and having better days mostly came from doctors notes. like with my psych appointements they would sometimes ask if I drank or used or ever had problems. What am I supposed to do= lie? A lot of the better days were mostly reported by the docs--they would sometimes report that I apeered well-nourished, which I guess is a no=no--but the doctors wrote that down, not me. and well, sometimes the doctors that I was cooperative, which I guess is seen as having good days a lot. and yes, I was excercising--but only on the doctors orders, and it was very moderate and I could only do a little bit at a time. sometimes the doc would ask me if I was keeping up my exercise regime; if I lied and told him no I would've appeared non-compkiant. yes, I go to the store, but it is extremely difficult for me---and I told my lawyer and the judge that; I wouldn't even go if I didn't absolutely have to, and I was very clear about that. and yes, I actually clean my bathroom once in a while, and I told them that, but I also told them that it's hard for me to keep things up on a regular basis and that I usually had my kids do that like about 90 percent of the time. I never said anything different or gave them any reason to believe that I couldn't do something I could.
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