Ussually I start in a similar position as she has. I sit back in the big comfy chair and cross my legs. As time goes on and I start pooring out my sad embarrassing secrets, My hand is holding my head, and covering my face, I pull my sweater over my hands, and I fall deeper and lower into the chair. Its like I close up into a little hermit crab. I hate having people know that I am upset and have trouble asserting myself all because I don't want to upset or disappoint other people, so saying embarrassing sad things is really difficult for me, and I think my seating position communicates that. I put on a very confident facade but as it comes down, I get more uncomfortable.