I know I've been on here before with this, and I don't know that there are any answers, but it helps a little to share.

My husband drinks on the weekends to the point of being obnoxious and screaming and sometimes having blackouts.

I was ready to leave the house tonight, but he said he would be quiet and so far he has been mostly so. It's so scary though. I don't really fear that he will hurt me, but he has been very destructive to the house, and he has been arrested 5 times in the last 5 years for disorderly conduct, which could lead to the loss of his job.

It's a very stressful situation. I went to al-anon for years, but I'm just kind of done with that. Like I said, I don't know that I can be helped, but if you are so inclined, prayers would be welcome.