It is possible still to have the feelings AND to be done talking about them. That's kind of how I feel about some of the stuff I've done in therapy. You've had the experiences that you've had, good or bad, they never go away -- but therapy can teach you how to look at them in a different light.
If you've worked on stuff and you feel done, I'd consider yourself done. That doesn't mean you won't ever go back, but for right now maybe a break is the best thing.
(((((((Jacq)))))))
PS: Sorry your T was a jerk