Thank you for replying! This post moved around a few ties from its original posting forum and I thought people forgot about it. Nice to know some people do care and respond!

I don't know if that it is OCD if I always want it to be perfect. Everything, i.e. family, work projects etc. have to be accurate and precise. Especially, my work and personal relationships. If someone does a substandard job or even a normal job, that is not good enough. In personal relationships, a hint of BS in the conversation will throw me off. This is where I am struggling i.e. constantly judging the quality of work or the BS story told to me. How can one ignore BS stories told to you?