I feel for you going through this. When I was a teenager & felt hopeless & depressed I called my pediatrician (I was 15 & my mother was dead & my father was an absent alcoholic) & she actually took the time every week to see me. I was in a boarding school & my dorm parent drove me there. She never told my father or sent a bill--she just wanted to help me. She did a lot. Medication helped a lot, too. I couldn't do it without the meds, but you wuld be surprised at who will help & listen to you. Reach out to a trusted counselor or friend of the family . Perhaps the doc who treats your diabetes?--Suzy