My current T is a woman and most of my past Ts were too. But that's just the way it's worked out. I wouldn't be opposed to having a male T.

For a while I didn't think I could handle a male physician doing a gyne exam on me--and maybe there was a time that I couldn't have. But then I started dealing with infertility and it happened that most of my physicians were male. It was a group practice and I had to come in on specific days for treatment so I got whoever was on that day. And it was really no big deal for me. I'm just saying this to illustrate that sometimes we put too much on a person's gender and not enough on who they are as an individual.