I am on Buspar (Buspirone) and so far so good. It has a similar effect as the benzos but you have to let it build in your system, so you can't take it on a per-needed basis. The odd thing about is that it feels (to me) alot like effexor did in the beginning but without the stomach-aches and initial jitteryness. But, it does have the same odd feeling of being wrapped in cotton batting (not an unpleasant feeling just a little odd)

Tried Paxil and hated the effect (became true to my S-name, nasty nasty agression and combativeness on Paxil!!!) So, I've avoided Zoloft and cousins of Paxil. I guess it is a little different for everyone!