Just curious, how young is young?

I think if you have all the practical things figured out, like how you guys would pay for rent (do both of you have jobs? Would you split it equally? Would one person pay all of it?) and other bills (heat, water, etc), then I would say maybe you should give it a try. The other thing to keep in mind is to start saving money for yourself in case things don't work out, and then you'll still have a way out, standing on your own two feet. I know it sounds extreme, but I did it when I moved in with my now husband.

Maybe getting into a healthier living situation would give you the opportunity to work on your independence and trust in therapy. Not to mention, once you start spending all your time with your boyfriend, you might be more inclined to go out and do things on your own in your free time, like taking a class or volunteering or something, so you can make new friends.