Hi there Sir Goliath
I just wanted to say, I thik you have made the best decision for you, and your child. I understand that it can be hard being in a relationship with a man who doesnt seem very secure in his own thinking.
Get the help you need, from whomever you need it! You need to feel free of guilt and hurt, you have put up with so much and I think you are very bold for saying enough is enough!
I hope things work out for you and your little one, stand firm and believe in yourself!