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Originally Posted by Kevin1706
and let go of the anger? It's been 2 months since my wife dropped the bomb on me about her multiple one night stands. She seems to be coming to the conclusion that I can't move past this.
I'm in therapy both individually and couples. I'm trying to forgive her. My basic thought has gone from "I can't believe she cheated on me" to "She ****ing Cheated on Me!!!"
All I feel is anger.
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Hi Kevin, sorry to hear that, what a shame you have to go through something like this. 2 months is still quite a short time, you will definitely need more time than that to finally be at peace with yourself before forgiveness even happen.
I've been down the similar path, except my marriage didn't last base on the fact it was never meant to work for starters. My ex husband cheated on me 2 months on into our marriage and I only found it all out after 1.5 years. He didn't even have the courage to admit it after I found him out.
Cheating is not something that anyone can move on from it easily. It takes time and effort from both parties especially the guilty one more than just effort. But if your marriage had started out great, perhaps there are some hidden issues that need to be address by both sides onto why it had led your wife towards infidelity?