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Old Nov 17, 2013, 02:06 AM
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Originally Posted by feralkittymom View Post
There are lots of different kinds of transference, though romantic or erotic and parental are most common. But I think you can certainly have all sorts of feelings for a T that are not transference. I think the key to figuring out the difference is in the intensity and timing of the feelings. If they happen suddenly, or more intensely than the situation or relationship seems to be, or despite the reality of the relationship, then they're probably transference.
Thanks for your response. I also did a little research. I was just taken aback that I had so little knowledge of the reality and differences of it. I just assumed it meant you had romantic feelings toward your therp. Learn something new every day!
Thanks for this!
feralkittymom