Maybe you can try to look at the situation from a different point of view.
Rethink all the problem: why should people make commitment to only one person? Why should we have only one relationship when we desire multiple ones?
Ps.: what's wrong with anger? you fight, you break up, you kiss, you make up
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Originally Posted by Kevin1706
and let go of the anger? It's been 2 months since my wife dropped the bomb on me about her multiple one night stands. She seems to be coming to the conclusion that I can't move past this.
I'm in therapy both individually and couples. I'm trying to forgive her. My basic thought has gone from "I can't believe she cheated on me" to "She ****ing Cheated on Me!!!"
All I feel is anger.
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