Thanks Tremor..

I think you're right. I just don't know how to help or comfort her right now b/c I'm so freakin frustrated w/her. She wants to tell the guy about us too. I have to get us to this job interview but unless she takes all the control back I'll be back online. I swear I'm trying to be nice, I haven't always been the nice guy..

Dude, what if I can't comfort her? We've had a lot of issues and our communication is still getting fixed so she misunderstands a lot. ..How can I comfort her so that she doesn't have to stick herself dangerous to feel safe?

Ryan