Thanks Dexter;
I think that if people would have read all of the replies (other people's and also mine to them) they would have had a better understanding of what I was talking about. As I had mentioned to Rapunzel; I LOVED her pity party post and contributed numerous times to it.
Looking back at the original post, I probably was a little too judgemental at first; and I recognize that we all are on our own journeys and it takes some of us longer than others...my post was not about telling anyone to "hurry up" but to share with others my thoughts on those who make a concious decision to stop trying. (I've been there numerous times)
I think the original post was to give myself a higher expectation; as only a couple of weeks before I was planning to "self-terminate" because I just didn't want to get better. So, I've been there.
Thanks for your reply.
Jon

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