I thank you for your advice and hugs......its just so difficult at the moment........my head is just going around and around with questions.......and no answers.....as the only person who could answer them ........won't contact me???

My mother and sister have said the same thing that he is a coward for not speaking to me and hiding away......my mother has told me to ask for financial support from him when the baby is born......however as he has not been to either of his jobs I think it doubtful that he would be able to support the baby financially. My sister has told me to let him come for his keys etc if he wants them, as when I fell backwards I hurt my lower back and should be resting.

When I first started a relationship with him he had only had the job for six months and had been unemployed for a long period before this........after six months in this job they finished him and he was unemployed again....myself and my family supported him and helped him to get employment with the two part time jobs he now has.

I just don't know whether he will want to be involved with the baby??? whether he will ever get in touch again??? Who he is staying with.....and why as he has his own flat???

I am trying to think practically now and prepare for the birth of our baby without him being involved as he has let me down and I cannot risk a repeat or rely on him at all now....I am very fortunate as I have close family who are able to support me....my children are older 16 and 21 and able to understand......I am just feeling humiliated and cannot tell my friends and work colleagues .....they have all been so pleased and excited for me and my family as they know that myself and my family have gone through some tough times over the past few years ....my mum had breast cancer and my dad passed away from cancer at the same time and I also went through a nasty divorce......they were all telling me that I deserved some happiness in my life......I am just trying to be strong now for the baby and my older girls.....and family.