Ok I am listening..
so how would you ladies here prefer that I talk to a girl online? or offline? how should I pursue them? how should I show interest without her finding it creeperish or "sexist" and "objectifying"? Where should I go to meet such a girl.. or what type should I aim for?

And I want to make it CRYSTAL CLEAR... I am not understanding why so many here equate my wanting sex with somehow me feeling "entitled" to a womans body.... is the woman not there to enjoy the sex as well? Every partner I have had, ever, has Always benefited from that situation.. not just me. Last I checked, sex requires Both persons to orgasm. And isn't orgasm just as pleasurable for a girl as for I? So I am not getting why it is sexist, objectifying, or self-entitling on my part??? It is a two-way pleasure and ecstasy!!!!

I also want to make CLEAR that sex has different levels. I don't necessarily let a girl sleep overnight with me that quickly, simply because I move alot during sleep and cannot sleep with a partner in my bed.. until knowing them much longer. I tried once.. and it was a really bad nights sleep! So my point is, two people can agree to have "oral" stimulation, or even variations of massage... "dry" sex (to not be too blunt on a forum like this). It has much of the same effect in terms of pleasure and relief for BOTH... but without the risk or complications (STDs, pregnancy, etc.) .

And never do I remember having a partner that just laid there while I had all the benefit of the moment, taking advantage of her. In some cases the girl had alot more given to her than I received.

With that said..

perhaps girls in your part of the country are different. But in my area, YES THEY ARE VERY SELF-ABSORBED! Thinking you are somehow "above" having a boyfriend or don't need a man simply because you have a degree and make your own money, that to me is Entitlement! Not attractive.

Both sexes need each other... your man may be great at directions or fixing your car, while you may be great at giving him fashion advice! In the bedroom as well, it takes two to tango... as mentioned above.

So is it really asking alot to get some attention from a modern girl, to get her to open up to the idea of affection and physical contact, and more? I don't think I am really being that sexist or asking much at all.