That sounds so incredibly tough, emomom. I am so sorry you're feeling so attacked.

I feel guilty a lot for my status also. I feel like it puts unnecessary strain on my relationship and my boyfriend. He started dating me before I was diagnosed (I was hypo, and tons of fun), and I know this isn't what he signed up for. I feel guilty and sorry all the time.

I don't know what I"m really saying, but maybe just that you're not alone in this situation.

This is not something we can control, and we are doing everything in our power to help ourselves. We didn't do anything wrong. This is about them, not us.