>> ARGH! You can't win when someone insists on rationalizing everything!

That's what you get for reading my long-winded posts .

I think the MOST important thing is that people get along here as well as possible so that it continues to be a safe and comfortable place for those who are vulnerable. That requires sensitivity when posting and understanding when reading. We are very talented at interpreting a piece of communication in the most negative and hurtful way... it's how our depressed brains work. Too bad we can't get paid for that special skill!

There are always going to be misunderstandings, and even occasionally errors of judgement by both posters and readers... but I can't say "nobody's perfect" because I already shot that theory to heck in another thread . If we can get past them we grow even stronger as a community.

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