Wow IT, some people took a lot of time replying to this thread to give you their opinions, advice and constructive criticism. I hope you took it all onboard. I would like you to post a list of more than 7 things that are good about you. Or maybe you could make a thread asking PC members to come up with 7 things they like about you. The thing with you IT is unfortunately you can't take compliments. You need to learn that the way you see yourself is not the way others see you. And you are more often than not wrong in your judgements of yourself. I have seen pics of you and I have told you that you are cute and good-looking. Your intelligence is exceptional. That is one of the reasons you are in my top 3 on PC. That and your sense of humour. I've never seen your hands, but I understand that one because a male colleague once said in front of a table full of people that I had the ugliest hands he had ever seen on a woman. I have hidden my hands ever since then. You can change your voice with practise. If your voice is boring, then practise throwing in intonation in appropriate places. Watch and learn from people on tv or something. Use them as a guide when to use inflection etc. About your body: you can't really change proportion but you can change your body's appearance drastically with work-outs, general exercise and nutrition. Maybe your body looks out of proportion because you lack muscle tone from lack of activity. Lack of skill is such a changeable issue. You just need to pick things which interest you, study them, then practise, practise, practise. You are smart enough and have a broad enough mind to pick up a vast number of new skills. You just need to work on your energy, lethargy, lack of motivation, and lack of self belief. As to your flexibility: I think you are wrong there. You can be totally random at times. I've had some of the fastest flowing, rapidly changing chats with you and we have both managed to keep up with each others tangents and topic leaps. So I think that last one is totally wrong. Please take what I say onboard.