Update: I'm still single and dateless. Just not desperate, which I never was; it was just the title I came up with. In a crazy mood the other night I changed tactics all together and put myself on a SugarDaddy site. I do not know why. Maybe it's because I have always been in relationships with men who are bad with money and I've ended up subsidising their lifestyles and losing everything in the split. So I thought why not go for someone who is financially secure, who is saying they are the dominant sort. I'm usually the leader in a reltionship, not by choice but that's just how it's ended up. I thought it might be nice to try going out with someone where our roles are clearly defined. I don't know how much part of it was about being with someone to take care of me. I was feeling all alone at the time, and thought of having someone to care for me was an appealing one. I don't know how young these men want their sugarbabes, because I'm 39, so maybe they're looking for 21 year olds, who knows? I thought to a 50 year old man I'm still younger, so I'm not sure if anyone will be interested. I haven't had any replies yet. Not a good sign. Do you think after years of being the domineering one that I can turn into the submissive one, with the right man? And do you think it might be good for me? thoughts? nd no, I'm not just doing it to get a rich dude.