Back to the song (cause I just read the OP), I didnt think rape when I read the lyrics. And I dont find it offensive either. Rape is a VERY sensitive subject for me & usually I have easy triggers. But this song didnt affect me personally, in any way. It sounds like a good girl gone bad kind of story. Shes married all buttoned up but has an inner bad girl in her. And the guy wants to get with her & she does him too but shes shy about it.

There are many song that can be inturpreted like that. I guess its all up to the listener.