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Originally Posted by Freewilled
I'm sorry that you're going through this  I can really relate to the part where you talked about not knowing how to get the trust back or how to trust yourself to know who to trust. I felt this way before even going back to therapy this last time and I've talked about it with me T in great detail. Nonetheless, I don't have the answers, sadly  How come your T talked to your friend about this? Does he have permission to do so? If not, that's just so wrong and I'd be furious as its a definite breach of confidentiality. |
My friend reached out to him after she and I talked. She said she thought if I heard the same opinions as hers regarding meds and my husband coming from my T, I wouldn't feel as much like she was pushing me to do stuff. So she told him I need to be on meds and he responded that he and I had discussed it before but I was reluctant to pursue that course of treatment. She also said he needed to force me to bring my husband to a session so he could tell my husband what a d-bag he is for not knowing how messed up I am right now and he said he didn't agree with the d-bag part of that suggestion.
I did not give him permission to discuss my treatment with ANYONE except his supervisor.
And while I'm upset with my friend for talking to him about me, I understand that she did it out if concern. It hurts a million times more that he continued the discussion with her instead of telling her he could not discuss my treatment with her because it would be inappropriate.