As soon as your friend mentioned you, your t should have shut down that conversation ASAP. I know that your friend is concerned for you and that is why she did it but she went about it the wrong way. I'm sorry that you are now in a situation that is burdening you.

I myself have never dealt with any issue like this, so I don't feel I can really comment. I guess you need to really think things through, as to whether you are able to get past it. Everyone is different. Good luck.