and let go of the anger? It's been 2 months since my wife dropped the bomb on me about her multiple one night stands. She seems to be coming to the conclusion that I can't move past this.

I'm in therapy both individually and couples. I'm trying to forgive her. My basic thought has gone from "I can't believe she cheated on me" to "She ****ing Cheated on Me!!!"

All I feel is anger.