I think that is how your T responded, growlithing. She was not saying she did not believe you, did not feel you felt what you felt but children get adult situations, motives, and actions very very wrong a lot of the time because they have no experience. Your experience is always yours, no one else can take that from you. But how you interpret your experience, you can sometimes change so it does not hurt so darn much.

You wrote how you would hurt your T and yet you say you would not hurt your T/would not ever hurt anyone. It is like that. What is going on/what went on, is different for each person and each person gets their say. If you interpret a situation with anger, that skews your point of view, anyone's point of view in that way. If you are an all-trusting child, a parent's or adults betrayal seems that much worse.