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Originally Posted by Truth in Ruin
Well ED sucks, and to be honest with you, I've had ED. When I say that I've had ED, what I should be telling you is that I've had ED with certain women. Like "Yoda" said, I believe that it's an incompatible issue. For example, with some women, I could preform extremely well, and with others... well... limp city.
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Well, I'd like to believe this isn't the case with her... She's the sexiest girl I've been with by far.
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I don't know your partner, but maybe she means that she enjoys everything about the relationship, but after a year now the only thing thats missing is a ****. And so, that's the only thing missing, so that's all she cares about at this moment... But then again, maybe I'm giving her too much credit. If that's the case, maybe you should part ways.
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I would like to believe this... Maybe I am over thinking.
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As far as the vanilla thing goes, I'm not into freaky sex and if that makes me vanilla so be it. And to top it off, if I had a freaky partner, I don't think I would be able to perform as well either.
I hope this helps.
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This could be my biggest problem... Whenever I do things my way, 7 out of 10 times, I can perform with great results... But she doesn't want me doing missionary most of the time... If I can't turn her around, treat her rough from behind, smack her ***, and last a half hour doing so, She's not completely satisfied... With that in mind, I expect poor results more often...
It's sad, but there's been some nights where I hope its that time of the month...
I used to love sex. Hell I'm a man... Sex is awesome... But recently, I've been finding myself at times trying to avoid it.
I need to discuss this with her, and be honest with how I feel...
I'd hate to break up with her, because I've had alot of fun with her, and ending the relationship because I have ED just seems unfair... Not just for me or her, but in general...
To be this young and healthy, and have to run the risk of losing an otherwise great relationship, all because I can't get it up? It's bull ****...