You are correct in that the "stronger" appearing members here do not receive much unsolicited visual support. I doubt anyone is to blame.

Think about the admin...DocJohn, KimmyDawn, LMo... and the mods (I can't list all of you till I have a current listing and I don't want to leave anyone out)... and our new helpers psisci, and drclay... we don't see many Kudos etc for them...

another thing is that the stronger members don't ask for much support...and we often give much more than we receive. There are many, many such members here...and we should (oh did I say should?) try to remember each other...

HOWEVER, (((((septembermorn)))) when the need is expressed, the membership surely does come through and SHOW the support that is really there all along (IMO) They do appreciate us and all the other members...



Try not to wait so long in asking for the outward display of support you need... it might help you not become so frustrated. (((((hugs)))) Seeing the support that is there for you always encourages!