Wow, sorry man, I hope she doesn't ever come back.

If you cannot see what is wrong with what you wrote here...

No one Deserves sex. Period.

You give her instruction....?!?

Tell her she has a learning disability?

Your wife sounds smart, she left.

You seem to have the learning disability. Cause you try to recreate the same terrible hurtful mistake.

Nice way to make up for YOUR crappy treatment of her tho, the mother of your child. Sure sound sorry, patient, and caring to me.... You sound abusive actually.

Are you really surprised she hasn't called? Should you be?

It must be a full moon or something.

Give in... Oh bwaahahaha, what exactly have you given?

Some people do not like oral sex, deal with it. Maybe just maybe because you were getting bj's in a car with some strange women, just maybe it's a terrible reminder for her of when you were cheating and betraying all her trust in you? Did you even think about that? Maybe that is why she feels inadequate, because you look elsewhere. Plus she doesn't have a lot of experience. You may have caused a lot of this problem, but don't sound willing to lend her compassion about it.

Like a lesson in action and reaction, say that you didn't cheat and get bj's in the car from some other women and hide it and lie about it, maybe your wife would have turned out to love giving them.

You knew she took sex seriously and she was saving it for you, you didn't not know that. You didn't treat her like she was anything special tho...but let's just call it a lapse in judgment.

Leave her alone for a bit. Let her have time to think. Respect her choice to leave. Maybe use this time to really look at how you are acting and ask yourself is the man.you want to be, husband you want to be, father you want to be?

You said you were a church kid, do you still consider your self to be?

Do you even love her? You know how it feels to be cheated on... where is your empathy for your wife?

This might seem harsh, but there isn't much here I can empathize or sympathize with you on. You don't even really seem to give off the vibe that you care at all.

You sound like you have a bad case of MeMeMe syndrome, good news is that it is curable. With time, lots of effort, willingness to change, love, real caring and compassion for others.

A therapist wouldn't hurt either.