I'd really like feedback on this.
I hate my ex. Literally. But I'm trying to get past it. He doesn't deserve that much energy from me. My goal is to make him someone who I do not like, but do not dislike as well. A stranger. But it does not mean I will forget what he did nor the invaluable life lessons.
The other day he asks how am I. I just gave short replies. Not that he gives a damn about my life, nor should I care about his. The reason why i started this thread is because I don't want to mess up contact with him and make my emotions go haywire about him again. I want to stop caring, and not let him get the wrong idea.
How did you girls/guys deal with an ex who tries to contact you after months of no contact? Any info at all is greatly appreciated.
PS. (No blocking advice please on social networking sites, I'll do that later when he goes overseas, when I'm certain I won't get to see him in person again at school, because he's gonna annoy me about it and my emotions will go crazy, etc...)
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