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Originally Posted by FrayedEnds
You weren't satisfied by the fact that you pressured her into giving you sexual favors because she wasn't acting thrilled enough while doing it??? seriously?
You cheated on her and then insult her intelligence for not dealing with it the way you think she should? You have proven to her that you are untrustworthy and no matter how many diapers you change, lunches you bring or presents you buy - the fact remains that you are pretty damn emotionally abusive. I wouldn't be waiting at the door to shower you with attention either.
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Do you think i'm always emotionally abusive? Or do you think it's just from this argument? What should I do about it? I'd like to say that I'm always a great husband and friend to her except when we fight, but maybe that's something an abuser says?
You know all the ugly facts, I won't blame you for anything that may hurt my feelings. If you all on here who read these posts and help eachother all the time think that i'm an emotional abuser, then this is a lot worse than I thought. Steps moving forward? What do I say?
Someone asked earlier if i still considered myself to be a church kid, and altho you're really gonna laugh at this i guess, my wife and i are both very active in our church. Her uncle is the pastor or I would talk to him.
There's a christian counseling place in a nearby town that accepts my insurance, I had checked on it when I got caught cheating on her. Should I go to them and tell them the whole story and figure out what I need to do?
And BTW, I'm sorry about the duplicate posts. I can't delete them or edit them and I did the "quick reply" and it looked like it just disappeared so i retyped everything and kept submitting until i realized it still has to be approved firstlol.