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Old Nov 20, 2013, 12:12 PM
purplegiraffe1 purplegiraffe1 is offline
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Originally Posted by healingme4me View Post


Though, you May not, turn out,to be like your parents,,please be careful with this push/pull pattern that is forming with your new bf?

How long, since you've dated your abusive exbf? Did you seek counseling, for it's lingering effects on you? Friends are great, to have, too, don't get me wrong, but there's little things of a therapeutic nature that a trained/skilled professional can help resolve. And, though friends aren't burdens, to one another, it's much to ask them, to tend to family/relationship wounds. For instance, you May need stitches, not a bandaid. Both helpful, but you'd turn to a medic, for stitches. Then your friends and bf, can help change gauze, or bandaid(depending on size of the wound)



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It's been 7 years since i've dated him. I am currently seeing a counselor, and am seeing her every week. I only ask my friend things for comfort, because he understands and knows me better than my family does. All i really ask him is for listening. and offer suggestions for my next step to take. and i always thank him for it, and he always says "that's what friends are for."