Thank you TR. Either we don't have a policy or it is not being followed. What is funny is that even in last nights group it was discussed that it is important to not have any sort of relationship outside of group. For the other person it does not seem to be a big deal, but she is also much further along in her healing journey. She has been in t since she was a child, and has told several people in her life. What makes it even more difficult to me is that I do like her. It is nothing against her, but it does put me in a spot where I don't know what to do. My individual t actually told me that he does think that I should leave. He is not normally so direct, but he said that he thinks that it is doing more harm then good right now.