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Originally Posted by anilam
This is stg a T could lose his license for... Frankly, I'm suprised your T doesn't seems to know it.
I'd find a new one immediately but that's me. Confidentiality IS more important to me than anything. I wouldn't read it that he doesn't care about you he does and so does your friend. This is stg that a friend might be expected to do...not a T.
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This hits the nail right on the head for me. He is not my friend, he is not supposed to be my friend. I am not supposed to expect him to be my friend. We will never go have a beer together, he won't "friend" me on Facebook, he won't follow me on Twitter.
I would have been annoyed if two of my friends were discussing my issues and treatment needs but I would also have understood that there is a real possibility that they were doing so because we ARE friends and they do care about me. I am devastated that my T did this because he is supposed to be a professional who is helping me help myself to get better. That personal intimacy should not be there because at the end of the day, my goal is to be able to walk away from him and live a happier and more productive life.
I have an appointment with him tonight and I hope I am strong enough to tell him these things.