I've printed this out and i'm taking it with me tomorrow. My wife sent me the first text she's sent me since she left yesterday, it said "I will go."

And I just realized this post posted without approval! lol.

I tried a post earlier that hasn't shown up yet asking you all what I should say to my wife and letting you know I got an appointment at the christian counseling place with a marriage and relationships counselor tomorrow at 3. And I asked if i should take her with me or not. But I sent her texts saying I had the appointment and she could go if she wanted or if she didn't want to it would be fine. And that's when she said "I will go."

Half of me is thrilled, because instead of me just spilling my guts to a therapist and trying to figure out what to say to my wife, we'll both be there together so if she has something to add she can. But, at the same time, it terrifies me because if i tell the story the way i told you guys at the beginning of this thread i'm afraid i'll piss my wife off even further. Advice? maybe just say a prayer?

One last note on this post, I'm appreciative of your perspectives. I'm hoping to build some friendships here where I can keep you all updated and you can call my *** out if i'm out of line.