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Old Nov 20, 2013, 08:16 PM
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Originally Posted by hankster View Post
If you started the group, and she is a newcomer, why do you have to leave? Why can't she be gently asked to leave?
She is not going to be asked to leave. I also haven't been asked to leave, but I don't know if I can feel safe there anymore. I do kind of think that my group t would like for me to leave though, but I'm trying to convince myself that that is just my head playing tricks on me. No one in my life has ever known about my past, and all of a sudden there is someone who does. It's just too much for me. Someone we both know called me earlier, and all I could think of is, maybe this person (the new group member) said something to my friend. I know in the back of my head that she probably didn't, but that is where my thoughts now go. I know that things are supposed to be confidential, but what if she doesn't value that rule as much as I do?
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