There is something I heard and realized that it must be true:

Think of all the models and acctresses who practically change the way they look with all their make up. Do you think they believe that they are beautiful? No. If they did, they would not try to change the way they look all the time.

So it's kind of ironic, one would think that all these models think they are beautiful. But actually, they don't. They only think they are beautiful if they put so much make up on to cover up their natural state and if they stop eating so much, to make sure they have a perfect shape. So all this hard work, just to look acceptable to themselves.

It's hard to like our looks (in some cases). But maybe we should focus on the fact that we see people around us and we consider how we would like them even in spite of their not so perfect looks. Looks are not everything. Personality matters a lot more. I think that some people didn't realize it just how much personality matters and makes a person more acceptable. Try to notice: when you don't like how someone looks and you dislike them, is it really because of their looks only? Or do you dislike their personality?

Beauty is skin deep. And it can make someone be attracted to you momentarily. But once they get to know your personality, they may become displeased with you as a person. That's why many guys marry plain looking girls and only have sex with the "pretty" ones. Why? Because you can't live on looks. What counts more is the right personality.

Different people would be gravitated towards different kinds of personality. So just because people you know were not attracted to yours, it doesn't mean that it's not attractive to someone. That someone just did not come across your path yet.