I am very submissive and my partner is dominant but lately she has told me she wants to change roles when we are having sex. This makes me nervous because being dominant doesn't really come natural to me. My first instinct was to ask my partner how she would like me to dominate her, but I reconsidered because asking her what she wants isn't very dominant.

So, I thought I'd crowd source. Females: how do you like to be dominated?