everyone deserves a treat now and then, how many women do you know who buy themselves an un needed but wanted pair of shoes or new hand bag, a bar of chocolate etc! the only difference is you are aware of which 'part' wants the gift where those without 'parts' simply buy it for the whole 'me'
gifts help with reassurance and feeling loved, wanted, security etc so if they are asking then go for it, gifts do not need to cost a fortune, it is the thought that counts and the benefits will cost you less than a session of therapy!