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Old Nov 21, 2013, 09:22 AM
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Originally Posted by monalisasmile View Post
First off, I am not even sure unhelpable is a word but it's needed here!
As some of you know my first t terminated me out of the blue, this was a year and a half ago. I had no idea it was coming, she never explained why so last month I felt a great urge to find out why! I sent her an email asking could I go back to see her again- her response was short and curt.
She said;
I feel as though I have taken you as far as I can on your counselling journey- good luck for the future.
From this I get that she couldn't help me anymore, I suffered all of this time and she didn't even refer me or suggest somebody else knowing that I needed help but she couldn't help me! I am so mad over it because she made me feel like I wasn't doing the work, telling me I was not doing enough in her eyes and then she says that arghhh. I am confused all over again and angry.
I agree with Hankster. Itīs not you itīs them. A more skilled T may be the best thing at this point. I had this happen to me too. I hurts like H..based on her response, the highlighted part, she seems No wonder she couldnīt help you with an approach like that, when a former client writes for closure. Youīre NOT unhelpable, youīve just come across a person who didnīt have the professional or personal skills in T or to terminate you in a legally and ethical right way.
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Thanks for this!
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