Thank you all for the support, so at least it is allowed to bring something in for sure. I also hope she will appreciate.. I fear exposing and looking "wrong" a lot, still I trust her so I'll give it a go!

MusicLover79, I can relate to the age thing.. my T is very young but so far she has turned out to be way more serious and committed (and non judgmental, finally!) than the previous one who was older and very experienced. That's why I wanted to know more about your experience, thanks for sharing.. hope we'll get something good out of that.