Ok, an actual proper positive... received a text from the wife just before finishing work saying she'd had a bad day and that she hoped I was ok as she was feeling low.

So, I went and bought her flowers (I don't do that often enough... I should really)... she came home... saw the flowers and burst into tears (at which point the 'oh crap' phrase was rattling about my head) and then proceeded to hug me and cry.

Wasn't quite the reaction I was expecting but it was a good release for her and I hope (think) she knows how much I love her.

So yeah...