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Originally Posted by taylorball
Maybe I need to sit down and make a list of the unexpected things I do for her like taking her lunch or sneaking out of bed early to get the baby so she can sleep in on saturday mornings. She didn't have to change a single diaper (except the first one in the hospital) for the first 4 weeks after he was born. Breast feeding was difficult for her so I would get up with her every time he fed and help her hold his head so he could get a good latch and tell her what a good job she was doing. I had surprised her with the concert tickets early in the summer, so that she and her best friend could go. I'm sure I could go on and on but I don't really keep a list of things I do for her, it's not fair to try to decide who gives the most in the relationship.
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I'm sorry man, but dude, you need to get a clue yourself. the fact that you're "chalking up" all that you did for her is as if you're keeping some g*d* score as if there is some game to win or that it works even remotely that way. Screw that. You are busying pointing out to us all that you've done and crap and the truth is, when you keep score all merit for things that you do for anything is lost. Why? because when you do things for soemone you truly love, there is no score, Love keeps no record of things. You have a very misguided concept of love.
That's all without speaking to the disingenuine way you are with her. You're one that is selfish and thinks of your needs underlying all of your beating around the bush, tryijng to talk out of both sides of your mouth, the truth is you don't feel anything but "ripped off". Ripped off she didn't do her apparent "chores" of rubbing your dang back and giving you fellatio. WTF dude? you don't make rules and tell someone what they need to do for you sexually like a boss. And that because she didn't "obey" your commands, she deserves to be called stupid? Wow, if you can't see just how condescending and arrogant you are.. there is no hope until you do.
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And like i said in the beginning, I don't think it's so much the sex or whatever, that's what I blame it on.
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what is it with you men that are so untruthful? it's not so much the sex, but yet you mention bjs and being serviced in one way or another in multiple points in the OP. Sorry but yes a lot of it has to do with that. Whether you want to be in denial or not.
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I know that I'm just as happy when I get home from a long day and she's ready to meet me with arms open wide and a big kiss and we can sit down and talk about our day. But that doesn't happen often either.
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Resolution? give her something to be happy about when you come home. Instead of thinking of what you want when you come home, think about all the things you could do for her NOT by the way, to get anything but those things you are compelled to do for her because you love her, without strings. If you don't understand what I mean, and you're at a loss here, that's your biggest problem.
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But yes, i've been a complete and total but hole to her throughout this
argument for sure,
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correction:
"But yes, i've been a complete and total but hole to her throughout this
argument relationship for r sure..."