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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
What I wrote there is only a small part of what happened, obviously after one and a half years with her a lot more happened. She would blame me because I wasn't working, she would blame me for everything that had happened that brought me to her in the first place- things that weren't my fault, like being abused, being treated badly and being cheated on. She would say that I did all of this to myself- maybe I unknowingly contributed but by her saying that did not help when I was distressed and suffering post traumatic stress.
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I get what you mean. It still sounds like HER limitations to me. I mean duh. It's like telling a sideroad it's their fault they are not a superhighway. When the question is, how does one reconstruct this road? And hey - your country is not as wide as our country! So you cant use that as an excuse! But maybe you can go to school there and then come back home and be the only t with this kind of depth experience. When God closes a door, She opens a window , per Helen Keller.