I don't know why, but this is around the time when certain men get "fearful and run" somehow. It's around the 7th to 9th month of pregnancy. I think they are terrified and once the baby comes they will not be the "main attraction anymore" too.

This is not your fault either, this is all "his problem". You actually gave him a lot of attention, nurturing even, and helped him find work too. He was not ready for this kind of commitment, he is not grown up enough. Even if he is with someone else? it is probably another "mommy type person", and if he isn't working then he is being "cared for" again.

That's my guess.

I am very sorry this happened to you, unfortunately this does happen "way too often".

(((Hugs)))
OE