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Originally Posted by Readytostop
I cant deal with conflict... I don't tell people how I feel or what I think about something if I think it will upset them. One of the reasons I'm in therapy....
She kept asking if I was okay with the every other week plan... I would say "whatever works" then she would say it again... and I would say "its fine"... but in my head I was so upset...I was almost in tears.... She kept saying whatever you want... but I couldn't bring myself to say I wanted weekly when I felt I didn't deserve it....
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That is true, why would she need to ask if she trusts you to be honest? But maybe that's all just part of the spiel she gives everyone, kinda rehearsed an not tailored for each person she speaks to. You're not okay with every week and she did give you several opportunities to say so. I totally get why you didn't ask for what you wanted cos it felt like you would be taking something more than what's being offered and worse don't deserve?
But in this instance you are going to have to tell her you want to see her every week. If all she was offering was every two weeks, she wouldn't have asked if it was ok with you or tell you that it's whatever you want.
